Finding Our Calling

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Finding our calling can be a challenge. A challenge we all must take on. Because we have free will and so many choices are available, how do we discern which one is the right one? 

Furthermore, even if we know what we are called to do, putting it into action takes effort and commitment. The mission God gives us may even seem impossible sometimes, but as Saint Francis of Assisi says, “First do what is necessary, then do what is possible, and before long you will find yourself doing the impossible.” 

Pray About Your Vocation

As Catholics, what we should do is we should pray, “Thy will be done,” in every situation, every day. And as much as we talk to God, we should listen to Him. Listen to the One who calls us to our heavenly home: the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit speaks to us in the silence of our hearts. 

This Lent, I have been doing a great deal of listening. Going into my room, shutting the door, getting on my knees, and just saying, “Come Holy Spirit, speak to me.” Then, what I do is I listen. Some days are more difficult than others. But what is important is that I try. I shut my eyes and shut out the noise that surrounds me. In the silence of my heart and soul, I am open to whatever the Holy Spirit may whisper to me in the time being. I can honestly say it has helped me spiritually. I feel like I am more vigilant in ways God may be speaking to me through the world around me.  I listen with the ear of my heart to God everywhere. 

God Always Answers

Whether it is a relationship or a job, God always answers. It may not be the answer you would like or expected, but it is always what is best. Why? Because God knows you best. He created you. He loves you. He died on the cross so that you may live with Him forever in his heavenly kingdom. That is what is so amazing. 

I know God knows my heart’s desires. He just wants me to ask. When I think of this, I often am reminded of the Sacred Scripture verse Matthew 7: 7-11.

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. Which one of you would hand his son a stone when he asks for a loaf of bread, or a snake when he asks for a fish? If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good things to those who ask him.

Another spiritual exercise I do is I leave my prayers under the sleeping Saint Joseph statue-like Pope Francis does. I pray to share my Faith through more writing opportunities. I pray for my friends that live far away.

A Prayer for a Spouse

I also pray for my future spouse. And for those who are wondering,  the prayer I say is this. 

“Lord have mercy.

Christ have mercy.

Lord have mercy.

Christ, hear us.

Christ, graciously hear us.

God, the Father of Heaven, have mercy on us. 

God the Son, Redeemer of the world, have mercy on us. 

Holy Trinity, one God, have mercy on us.

That my future spouse may be a faithful husband, Saint Joseph pray for us. 

That my future spouse may be a loving father, Saint Joseph pray for us.

That my future spouse may be freed from sin, Saint Joseph pray for us. 

That my future spouse may be strengthened in virtue, Saint Joseph pray for us.

That my future spouse may be a strong soldier of Christ, Saint Joseph pray for us.

That we may walk hand in hand to the gates of Paradise, Saint Joseph pray for us.

Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world; spare us, O Lord!

Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world; graciously hear us, O Lord!

Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world, have mercy on us. 

O God, by the intercession of Saint Joseph, bless my future spouse and lead him to me. Amen.”

One thing I learned is that if God does not want you to be with a particular someone, you are not meant to be with that person. And whatever I am seeking or lacking, God will provide. He always has and He always will for all eternity. 

In the end, pray and listen to the Holy Spirit. God gave each of us a mind as well as a heart. Consider all options with prudence. God is with you every step of the way. Remember this and you are already halfway where you need to be. 

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3 thoughts on “Finding Our Calling”

  1. Thank you for this insightful piece, Diana! Seeking and determining one’s vocation can be challenging, especially in today’s world. You provide great key points in your article such as praying and listening to the Lord, trusting that He will answer, and then taking action toward one’s vocation when prompted by the Holy Spirit. Praying for one’s future spouse, as you beautifully mention, is also essential if one feels called to Holy Matrimony. Desiring to be equally yoked with one’s future spouse and praying for him or her, are holy thoughts and actions to prepare for this vocation, as one of marriage’s purposes is for husband and wife to help each other and their children grow in virtue in this earthly pilgrimage and reach heaven. Following God’s will and having a heart that is open and receptive to His plans will help to guide the marriage-minded soul toward a spouse that is after God’s own heart. “Do not be yoked with those who are different, with unbelievers. For what partnership do righteousness and lawlessness have?” 2 Corinthians 6:14. A short, yet powerful prayer, for the intercession of Christ’s loving grandmother can be prayed by ladies seeking their future husbands, “Good St. Anne, please find me a good man!”

    1. You are very welcome AW! I am glad that you found my article insightful. I have always loved the short and powerful St. Anne prayer you have mentioned. Thank you for your comment.

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